Tuesday, May 09, 2006

I hate...

I hate:
1) People saying that they are in love start having their whole life revolve around a person.(whatever happened to inviduality)
2) They say they are in love so allow themselves to be debased by the person, lose their self-respect to the person… who is just having fun at their expense.
3) People who blindly believe that everything that the person says is true and his/her opinion becomes of utmost importance.
4) And above all they believe that the person is nice and just refuse to accept any criticism of him
5) And if they finally get down to leaving that person they feel miserable and just fall for the next eligible person they find!

Have seen so many ppl like this …smart ones at that… am not cynical but sometimes I feel…Love is not only blind…it also causes mental retardation at times.

15 comments:

Batty said...

Well....if love is blind how do people see the beauty of their partner....if love is dumb ..how are they able to say such nice things we hardly get to hear these days...the answer lies within us...
Its sometimes great for your life to be revolving around a person. Individuality is human, but love makes you a person.
Hahah...gyaan once again...crap...love is all bullshit..agreed....:)

rachit said...

saumya...its easy to preach than to follow ...lets see wat happens when ur "best friend" leaves for manila:((

Batty said...

what a revelation "best friend" do I see somebody blushing..and manilla aint moon's distance away....jab dil ki doori kam ho to yeh doori kis kaam...:))

Suhas said...

hmm.. well I beg to differ....
:) (individuality)
And whats with the word verification.. Did you include this yourself..!!! feels like I am filling some online form..*smiles*

Saumya said...

@Rachit...I pratise only then preach

@Suhas...I know u disagree....respect tht:):)

Mayank said...

well its actually the other way round. Mentalretardation causes love!

~ from a guy who prefers to think with his brain

Requiem for a Dream said...

wow..love,life and i scream..oops..i meant ice cream...i just think love brings out the person you actually are..submissives relinquish control and dominants sieze it..and then there are some who find a happy medium..then again everybodies defination of love is different...i say just go and do whatever makes you happy..what is love besides an ecstatic state...it doesnt matter if ppl judge you.they re gonna do it anyways...might as well enjoy the ice cream...

Saumya said...

@requiem for a dream:oye pankaj...mujhe samjhe aisa kuch likh!!!verbally challenged hoon main!!!
Yes even i believe go & have fun...but if a relationship stops being fun and makes you be ur melancholic best...not worth it I feel!! but then if u njoi mlenacholy and thats your idea of fun...what can i say!!!!

Requiem for a Dream said...

oye yaar..simple sa toh tha..chal..it is true,some ppl do enjoy melancholy..i know ppl who seek out all the wrong there is in their life..they see out problems when there are none..its is sadly true..some ppl love being miserable...
when you talk about relationships..dont mistake it for just love..there is a lot more which goes into relationships...its just that love should be strong to overshadow it all...
ps:muhahaha ...wherever you go on the internet,i shall hunt you down...muhahahaha...

Saumya said...

hehehehehehhe... so true ur cyberstalking me...!!! arre u stopped blogging kya..start it again...lets give the orkut server a lil rest..time to attack the Blogspot server!!!!

Requiem for a Dream said...

nah..all my friends blame me for writing melancholy blogs..its like i m in a relationship with my blog and i m seeking to be sad..tssk tssk..no blogging for me...and anyways..i used to post like once a month or something..so see you on orkut later...supercalifragalisticexpialidocious....

rachit said...

ok ...tell me...i hav always known u as an ambitious lady...then y do u now a days always say...i ll take a back seat after some years of job...wat happened to that fiery ,zealous saumya???? is "LOVE" the reason...then u r also hardly different from the persons u hate....sorry if i m too blunt..but then how r u different from them???

Saumya said...

@rachit... i hate losing individuality...did I say i will sit at home and do nothing???is tat y i slogged so hard to get into a good bschool!!! I said for my 'family' I will take a less strenous job like become a freelance consultant...btw do u know wht freelance consultant means:):)... did I ever say that I will accept all that my husband/or otever says...did I say that I will allow him to insult me...take me for granted...did I ever tell you that his opinion will be the most imp one for me...
and neways I was toking abt ppl who think they always need the person they love for them to be happy in life and refuse to find happiness in other things moreimportantly themselves...thats when u lose ur indivduality.. and my statement abt taking a backseat was when I become a mother which has nothin to do with being in love with a person foolishly!!!
You are as usual thinking in black or white...growup boy!!!
will give u more gyaan in office!!!

Batty said...

Girl!!! Your BF is sure to have a tough time!!! You sounded jus like Jhansi Rani!!!! Tough time mate!!!! My condolences!!!:)):)

wormtongue said...

crazy little thing called love..
oh yeah..:P
but from personal experience,:P
i think its important to be patient and not jump to any kinda half baked conclusions ( im not sure if what im saying has any relevance to your post at all..... :P but still..)
anyways... one thing is for sure...
what you says.. does happen and it can be avoided... best way to kick arse of the person acting that way.. and then scream.. I TOLD YOU SOOOOO..
buhahaha..
Andy.